love and the lord help!

[chick4christ]

i know this guy. well actually i love this guy. i know no one really believes paople when they say they're in love at my age. im 15 almost 16. but i know beyond a shout of a doubti am in love with him. my mom agrees with me that i probably am. the thing is....he knows how i feel and he just asked my best friend out. he hurt me really bad. he has been a christian since basiclly he was born. so have i and i just didn't thik that it was a very christian thing to do. but nowi feel bad also because all the time i catch myself finding the meanest things to say to him or my friend. he's one of my best friends too. i just feel likei can't find the right way to handle this. i want him to understand how bad he hurt me and i almost feel likei want to mak ehim pay. but then i know that's not right either. im just so confussed and hurt. i have prayed about it tons. but i still dont' know what to do. HELP!!!!!:-(

[Smee King]

Chick4Christ, this is a tough situation to be in. There are some chicks I am friends with and I have a crush on them. But does he like you? If he doesn't, why should he ask you out? I'm sure you feel bad that he asked your best friend out, but if he liked her, he did the right thing. He isn't going to not ask your friend out just so you wouldn't feel bad. Jealousy is an annying and painful emotion. I don't know how to relieve your jealousy, but I will pray for you. You might not be so mad with him if you are nice to him. If you are nice to someone, you will find that you like them more? You get what I'm saying? Take care

[dannyboy]

Well, firstly, you have to tell him it hurt you, privately. Also, show love no matter what happens.

[Hayley]

well you should tell him and her how you fell and maybe they will understand but first make sure its love!