Please pray !!!!

[counselor2]

My husband says he is a Christian and goes to church on Sunday mornings most of the time, but he is addicted to alcohol and pornagraphy. He is also bi-polar. Medication is a great help for the bi-polar but he refuses to talk to anyone about this and why it makes it so much harder for him with porn and alcohol addictions. I am so frustrated. I finally told him he needed to make a choice between me and the alcohol and porn. I don't know what he wants but it is not to stop. He just had a birthday and turned 60 so he has been a heavy drinker for 40 years or more. We have been married for 20 years. I just want to hear from God and do what God wants in my life. He has such a spirit of lust on him. I really need a miracle. I told him he is in a battle and he must spend time in the Word and prayer, but he has a very stubborn spirit and refuses to pray or read the Bible. He will sometimes watch Christian tv but only for a few minutes. he loves to play the game and make others think he is a real strong christian. This is such a battle. :-( :-(

[MarkinLA]

I will pray for you, your husband and your marriage.

I wish you the best and may God bless you!

[counselor2]

Thank you for praying. I have tried so hard to be a good wife and can not believe that after all this time, he would choose pornography over a real relationship.

[melbinell]

Sounds like your husband is only a christian by word of mouth and not by his actions or what is in his heart. The best thing you can do is be an example to him and live your life through Christ. Continue to always pray for him. God bless you both.