please help going through a divorce

[jason]

:-( my wife and I are unable to reconcile so we are going to seperate. I need help from God. We have one baby boy together, that is the worst part, I am asking God to protect him, and give my wife and I guidance, please pray for God's will to come about in this situation. Not mine, nor my wifes, nor the courts, but Gods. Thank you

[MarkinLA]

I will pray for you!!!!!! God bless your family!

I understand as I am facing a similar situation right now too.

[Roxy]

:-( my wife and I are unable to reconcile so we are going to seperate. I need help from God. We have one baby boy together, that is the worst part, I am asking God to protect him, and give my wife and I guidance, please pray for God's will to come about in this situation. Not mine, nor my wifes, nor the courts, but Gods. Thank you
Not knowing what your whole situation is, have you tried counseling?...do you both talk at all?....or is everything an argument?...have one of you alrady given up? I read a thread about a book called "The five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman. It is about relationships and how different people are. It is a really simple guide to how to show love to each other in the way each individual reads love. I found this very helpful in my marriage, I too am separated and we are trying to work on our marriage.

I will pray for Gods will to intervene into your marriage and help you both find a way to come back together to be a loving family for your son and both of your sakes.

[melbinell]

Give God your burdens. He shall carry them for you. God bless, and you are all being prayed for.

[Cana]

Dear God in the Name of Jesus, Please pray for Jason and his wife to reconcile their problems. Please Lord be the GLUE between them. In Jesus Name, Amen

[RRRick]

Jason,
I feel for your brother, my wife and I have made it 16 years, but times were tough and we prayed and God helped us make it through.
I will pray for all three of you, and in reading your response about Gods will I feel that you are on the right track, seek him first and all will added unto you.
God bless,
Rick

[jason]

Thank you all for your prayers. My wife and I opened our hearts to one another and forgiveness flooded in. We realized we were working against each other instead of as a team. We are together and as strong as ever. This victory and and all glory to our Lord and savior and Jesus Christ. He is So Good! Thanks again.

"No longer divided and conquered, but united as one in the flesh with our eyes set on our Lord"

[MarkinLA]

I will continue praying for you. I will pray that your marriage continues to become stronger as you rebuild your relationship.

[RRRick]

Praise God!
Keep your eyes on him!
Rick

[kmw]

God is good and He can work so quickly once we let Him in and allow Him to work! Continue to keep Him in the center of your marriage as you and your wife work back towards each other. I will pray for you!!

[RRRick]

Hi Jason,
A few tips that have worked with me regarding my wife...
I listen to her even, she needs that,
I tell her how nice she looks, and after a baby believe me you can't say this enough,
Flowers are a great surprise,
get a baby sitter and surprise her with a date night, go to a movie SHE wants to see,
If I make a mistake, I have learned to admit it and say I'm sorry, being humble with her was a tough lesson but has taught me volumes about my other relationships in life.
Pay attention to the things she enjoys and let her do those more often,
call her during the day for no special reason,
much of our relationship started as a friendship, remind each other of the reasons that drew you together in the first place and WHY you feel in love,
that one has carried us through some big storms in life.
Tell that story to others in her presence, carry it in your heart like a little spark and fan it every once in a while by telling the story. Its dear to both of you and will draw you back together.
Champion her causes, that's Knight in Shining Armour stuff.
Pray for HER AND your marriage, God will honor those prayers.
Oh and this is one I try to do a lot....remember the vows, and that you promised in front of her, your family, your friends and God.
I hope this helps,
Rick

[Broncosfan]

Jason,
I know what you are going thru-I went thru a divorce 10 years ago. It hurt terribly. My husband walked out on me and my daughter. But I think it is good that you both are seeking God's guidence. Keep praying and God will heal your message. He can do anything. Father God, I ask that you help Jason and his wife thru this tough time in there marriage. Lord you can do anything and I ask that you heal this marriage. I ask that you perform an awesome miracle here. Lord you don't like divorce and Jason and his wife are asking for your guidence. Help them to feel your presence,speak to them,comfort them and show them the way to start to heal the marriage. Your a loving God and Lord they need you to just love all over them.They need to hear from you Lord.Lord divorce is so ugly especially with children involved and we know that you never intended for people to divorce,place your hand on them and heal this marriage.I pray all this in Jesus precious and beautiful name.Amen. I hope this helped Jason. Hang in there and continue to seek God, He will answer and guide you in the right path. Trust Him and completly give it all to Him. Maybe your wife and you need to pray together and ask for God's help. With God's help you will become stronger thru this. He always has a reason for everything and maybe it is just for you both to draw closer to Him. I dont know but He loves you both so much and wants to help you both.May God bless you and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Renae

[Daryl]

Jason

I am going to pray for you. You really don't know what God has in store for you. You are on the right track, keep looking and be patient. He has the answers.

[vivilin]

:-( my wife and I are unable to reconcile so we are going to seperate. I need help from God. We have one baby boy together, that is the worst part, I am asking God to protect him, and give my wife and I guidance, please pray for God's will to come about in this situation. Not mine, nor my wifes, nor the courts, but Gods. Thank you
Hi Jason.

I know how that feels. I was married before, it was only for 6 months. I came to USA with the will of having a family, a caring husband. He told me he was a Christian... what he was not. It was very difficult for me to start a new life by myself in a country I did not even know... but God is always there with us... He never desert us. Cry out to the Lord. If you are not happy in your marriage or if you think you and your wife need a chance to do things better... tell God all what you feel in your heart and always ask him for wisdom so you will know what to do in a situation like this one
Take care.

[Alicia]

Jason your in my thoughts and prayers. Our precious Lord knows all about your broken heart . My prayer is that you draw close to Jesus and as you do that he will give you your hearts desire and heal you. You are not walking this long dark road by yourself as you see we all care about what you are going through. We lift you up to the Father that cares more than us all ,The Father knitted you together and put in your mothers womb and said I have a perfect plan for him even before this world was created. Cry out to Him in your pain and He will heal you . This will take time but one day you will look back and see how He carried you through it all. His strength is made strong in our weakness. I have had to experience that right much in my life and even now. God Bless you and Never give up Jason ,If you fall get back up and get the dirt off your knees and try again my friend .Your not alone. He will never leave you nor forsake you :)