Tired of Suffering?

[god'schild219]

I need the power of prayer to keep my head up. My husband is driving me krazy?:m :cf :-(

[god'schild219]

Will i be the reason for him to pursue adultery? and if so will I be punished by GOD?

[Solus]

Your husband os not drivng you crazy sister,you are! YOU are responsible for how you choose to feel about him not his actions. You are letting this happen and need to decide it will not! Let your feelings follw your choice! We are praying for you and glad you are here but there is a saying from the book of Psalms~

" happiness is NOT found in the absense of suffering but in the presence of God"

[Sara †]

Amen Solus :)

[Solus]

James 1 and verses 2-6 should make the "choice" to grind through it worth it to your faith!

[Solus]

again-you are NOT responsible for someone's else's feelings that lead to sin especially if they are a NON-believer~ In addition,you need quality Christian counseling at a thriving Bible preaching church for direction on this before doing anything. This is my suggestion to you!

[larry]

Dear Godschild, you evidently have read scriptures in Matthew chapter 5 referring to your situation. Please believe me, I am not judging you. Will you be responsible for his adultery? I wrote this to you on "Thinking of Divorce", and will repeat it for ease of keeping with me on this.

But first, I will show something that may help you, though many will not agree with me. In Matthew 1:17-18 Jesus said, "Think not that I am come to destroy the law, or the prophets: I am not come to destroy, but to fulfill. 18 For verily I say unto you, Till heaven and earth pass, one jot or one tittle shall in no wise pass from the law, till all be fulfilled." Jesus was showing them the extent of the law, and Jesus fulfilled the law for us, and in Romans 8:4 God fulfills the law in us (not by us) who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit. We are not saved by keeping law, and the law according to Galatians 3:23-26 was a tool to show the Jews they could not obey (a schoolmaster or teacher) a law, and needed Christ. The law is still in effect to accomplish teaching this even today. The law shows us the very nature of God's nature, and adhering to the righteousness He shows us can keep us from entering much ill consequence to our lives. If you can do the things to save your marriage, there will be much benefit to you and your husband. Your husband will still be responsible for his own sin, and you your own sin.

This is the way it should be, but it does not always work for all. Some can't adapt themselves to these things, but there is absolutely no sin that God will not forgive His child for and whatever path you choose, God is not going to leave of forsake you; you can always go to Him. I will again give you instructions for obtaining a good "Marriage Seminar" that can help you correct many problems that now cause problems in your marriage if you really want to.

1 Corinthians 7:10-16. And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband:
11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.
12 But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away.
13 And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy.
15 But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace.
16 For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save thy wife?

Then Dear Godschild, if you decide to stay together and want a good marriage, follow the follow the following guideline, though it hard when only one of you is trying.

Ephesians 5: 21 Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

Go to "gracegod.com" and then depending on the search engine you have, you may have to select "Gospel Fellowship & Grace & God Glory Bible College". All material there is free and there is no registration. Along the left side of their home page select a blue selection "MARRIAGE". Take the pamphlet "Index", and all six marriage pamphlets, click on to open each one, and a toolbar appears on top left. Options include "SAVES COPY - PRINT - EMAIL".

God bless you in Jesus' name - larry

[god'schild219]

thank you i agree

[god'schild219]

thank you i have read and it is inspirational

[Solus]

remember~

The Bible is written to make you BE good......NOT feel good!

:)