Hello

[artistdonnamarie]

Yes, I am saved also. LOVE THE LORD JESUS. But life is not easy. Husband is pastor's son and he is not the person that I married. He has changed after the honeymoon. Now I am stuck. HELP!
:-O :(

[larry]

Dear Artisdonnamarie, below you will read what qualities are necessary for a marriage to go right, and you will not see "Thou Shalt Not's" in them,

Ephesians 5:21-44 ¶ Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.
24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing.
25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word,
27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.
28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:
30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones.
31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church.
33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

Now here is a piece of scripture most quote concerning bad hookups, but you will notice it says yoked with unbelievers. I will go the stretch and as a type use it to say we shouldn't be married to someone we can't live with always. I take it the preacher's son is a Christian? Evidently you didn't know him very well before marrying him also, or he really covered himself well, though most times love clouds the vision.

2 Corinthians 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

There's no way I or anyone else can know the faults of you or your husband, and anytime there's a problem it takes two to tango in most cases. A portion of the following verse will tell you what happens in many cases because there are such people though I'm using the verse out of context. Titus 1:10 For there are many unruly and vain talkers and deceivers. Most times again when things like this happen, you didn't know each other well enough, or you're both immature expecting marriage to be some type of unrealistic never-ending honeymoon.

Now I don't believe it is right to jump in and out of marriage, but I believe it is better when you first realize you've supposedly been deceived and know things will not work, than waiting until you have children and really magnify the problem. I pray for your decision to be correct and that you'll take it take it to God. God is a forgiver, and wants you to be in fellowship with Him. There's nothing in you that He will not forgive, and you can boldly take your problems to Him.

God bless you in Jesus' name - larry